No Job for Mom’s 100th Blog Post – 10 Things I’ve Learned
Knowing that my 100th blog post was coming up soon I started to think, “What is an appropriate post for my 100th entry?” I wanted to make a big splash. Something I could remember for years to come.
Drawing a mental blank, I decided to write about 10 things I learned from my first 100 blog posts. Ready? Here they are:
- You can never get rid of spammers. Even though the WordPress plugin Akismet is installed on this blog, I still get a few errant entries that must be deleted.
- You won’t always agree with your readers comments, but approve them anyway. My initial reaction was to hit the ‘delete’ button to send them into the cyber trash can, but I thought better of it. Instead, I welcome varying opinions. I say that with the caveat that if the comments are rude,
disrespectful, ranting and just plain mean, they get deleted. - Google AdSense doesn’t always work well for blogs. My regular readers might remember my post about converting No Job for Mom from a website to a blog. After I converted it I noticed my AdSense income from this blog all but stopped. Initially I was shocked, but I realize it’s all good. There’s a larger plan in the works.
- Blogging is a commitment (no duh). I’ve committed to adding 6 posts a week. I take Sunday off to honor God, spend time with my family and replenish myself.
- You meet nice people blogging. Although my blog is new, I’ve met quite a few nice people here. The relationships are still young (like the blog), but I fully expect them to grow.
- My family doesn’t read my blog. They know I spend a lot of time on the computer writing, but they only read a small fraction of what I write. No hard feelings.
- I’d be lost without my digital voice recorder. In my advancing years, my

ideas play a game of hide and seek (they hide well and I’m always seeking to retrieve them). With my digital voice recorder, I can always find and capture them. I strongly recommend a digital voice recorder for anyone serious about writing.
- Don’t get intimidated. When I first started this blog I was easily intimidated because of the tons of good blogs out there on similar topics. I became paralyzed by fear and feelings of inadequacy. Other blogs had a large readership, they had a better blog design, they were around longer, they had newsletters and were earning tons of money. I focused on their success to my detriment. Now I look at those blogs, appreciate them and learn from them. They are a resource and not a competitor. It’s all about how you look at it.
- Build a Blog Bank. Because stuff happens, I found there were times when I couldn’t blog about the topic I intended to. Therefore, I would reach into my ‘blog bank’ and pull out one of my almost complete blog post, complete it and then post it. It saves time and allows for continuity. Setting up pre-written entries to be published at a scheduled time works even better. I haven’t evolved to that level quite yet.
- Be myself. Although this is the last item, it is by no means the least important. I’ve found the one thing that follows me everywhere I go is me and my personality. So, who else can I be but myself, and my blog is a reflection of that.
Blogging Goals for the Next 100 Posts?
Get 5% better. Sounds like a rather tame goal, but if I can complete 100 posts in 95% of the time it took me to accomplish the first 100 posts. That’s an improvement. If each month I increase my readership and my income by 5%, I’m headed in the right direction. If I get 5% more backlinks each month, that’s a plus.
As with the game of basketball, a team wins the game 1, 2 and 3 points at a time. There’s no 20-point shot in basketball. I’m willing to plod along increasing my success 5% at a time. I’m a patient woman (most of the time).
There are a few more things I learned from my first 100 posts, but judging by the snoring emanating from my computer, I’ll stop here.
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Comment by Msmayor on 21 August 2008:
Well congrat’s to you. I read you blog everyday and probably will for a long while. I am new, but I enjoy your respect,insight and honesty. Reading your top 10-confirmed my much wanted purchase. I was walking to the subway( I still work outside of my home) and I realized that in the early morning is where I have most of my thoughts and I haven’t mastered writing and walking, so I said I have to purchase a recorder. Then I thought writers write so I thought I was wimping out-there is so much more I can write about but I am sometimes not in the right place and time-
Felica – hats off to you!!!! thanks this hit at the right time.
My family don’t read my blogs either
Comment by Felicia on 22 August 2008:
Thanks for being an avid reader. That means a lot to me.
You’ll find that the voice recorder will make a world of difference as far as being more prolific. I’ve found it to help me spit out two and three times the amount of work than I would without it.
No, you’re not wimping out. You’re using the tools available to become better and more productive at your craft. Keep up the good work. I’ve been checking out your blog too.
Comment by Kristen on 18 September 2008:
Wow this is great! All of your topics and suggestions are wonderful. I am currently unemployed and working on finishing a Master’s degree. I’ve always had such a negative perception of freelance writing, that most, if not all ads are scams, or that the pay never outweighs or equals the work and time involved. I was looking up textbroker.com on google to see what other’s are saying about it, and came across your site. I feel inspired and a bit relieved now about beginning some online paid writing assignments and possibly a blog. Your site is invaluable and I will be visiting often! Thanks!
Comment by Felicia on 18 September 2008:
Welcome Kristen.
The interesting thing about this blog is that I learn as much from my readers as they do from me. I find it a great place to share info.
Thanks for stopping by!
Comment by Jean on 1 October 2008:
Hi Felicia, Congratulations on your 100+ (by now) blog post! I love your blog. I can really relate to #8 since I am just getting started writing my blog. It’s not my first blog, but it’s the only one that I have been really serious about.
I read a bunch of your post but I did not see reference to writing for Xomba (I may have missed it) I like that Xomba shares their Google Adsense revenue with you 50/50 and that you can write a Xomblurb which allows users to share a link. I also write on ehow, I’ve been writing on ehow for a couple of months.
Thanks for all the helpful tips and the information you have provided on your blog. I wish you much success! Thanks again!!
Jean
Comment by Felicia on 1 October 2008:
Thanks for the well wishes Jean.
I just heard about Xomba today by reading an article somewhere (I don’t remember where). I’ll check it out to see what its all about.
Comment by Kristi on 28 December 2008:
Excellent advice Felicia. Thanks for sharing. : ) I especially like the point about being an individual. As a blogger too, I sometimes find myself comparing my blog to others and that is NOT good. : ) Kristi